This post is inspired from my own Philosophy which I have gained in life. Most of them come to me in form of realization when I had handle or faced situations and few of them I had as my beliefs which later turned out to be true. I am fond of words and penning down my thoughts give me a sense of organization too.  Sometimes when you are looking for the solutions , you get the one by going to your very own “manual of lessons” you learned.  Till now I have wrote down 60 such lessons and here I am sharing them with you…………………

Disclaimer :: It is written totally out of my personal learning experience and subject of copy write in any and all forms.

  1.  Communication is one of the subtle ways which reflects your inner world.
  2. You first grow the understanding in your heart then knowledge in your brain.
  3. Cursing and complaining make the situation worse however prayers do the wonders.
  4. Children and trees grow as much as you allow them to.
  5. Solve the questions for others and you will get the answers for yourself too. Serving others is the key to lifetime joy.
  6. When you change your words, people change their mind about you.
  7. Most of us have knowledge and still we are not educated.
  8. “Ravan” was the only man in history who was civilized enough to be bothered about consent.
  9. When you try to prove yourself by dragging down the other person, you know you have already lost the game.
  10. Whatever you do idea is to be happy. You alone have to live your choices; other people can have opinions about it. But remember they are just opinions which are subject to change.
  11. Check with self for willingness and energy before saying YES to others.
  12. When you finally learned to turn every setback into stepping stone then you recognize opportunities everywhere.
  13. If the direction is right, you see the light.
  14. Unconditional love doesn’t mean accepting wrong as right. It means convey wrong as wrong and continue taking care of them.
  15. Wisdom is not the prisoner of age and experience.
  16. Do a favor to your children!! Accept it and thanks to them when they offer correction of your behavior. That’s how they will learn to contribute and correct instead of complaining. And the bond goes stronger and better.
  17. Atheist is the one who is closet to God.
  18. If your action hurt them then your intentions don’t matter. You need to apologize.
  19. If it is costing your health and peace then it is too pricey.
  20. Prefer person over gender, Behavior over age.
  21. Understanding and accepting your darkness opens the door towards light.
  22. It is not your responsibility to heal the wounds of your partner.
  23. Children are not the reason to stay and continue.
  24. The only important connection is: With Self.
  25. When a couple decides to be parents, they actually plan their expectations not the parenting style.
  26. Nature has the capacity to nurture. You as a human is part of ecological system. Whatever garbage you throw out it will eventually be fed into your system.
  27. Connect to core to grow more.
  28. Suffering and bearing insult are not love.
  29. One who can look deep into nature and connect with its mysteries has the capacity to love unconditionally.
  30. Anger is a feeling. Others can be stimulus but never can be the cause of it. Ways you express it or not express it; there you have a choice. And sadly, most of us have learned violent means to express Anger.
  31. Not having a fixed destination doesn’t mean not having a purpose.
  32. Stability is illusion. Either you grow or fall.
  33. Appreciation is to appearance; acceptance is to soul.
  34. One of the painful moments to be criticized for being your authentic self.
  35. Being cruel is different from being angry.
  36. Hired for obeying. Fired for questioning.
  37. If it is mutual then only it is not brutal.
  38. When it comes to marriage, you live with the character not with the beauty.
  39. By just being your authentic self; solve most of the problems.
  40. Change never really takes place until one allows it to happen within.
  41. Keep suggesting and stop expecting.
  42. God’s choice is better than yours. With faith on him continue sailing your boat.
  43. Understanding helps you in acceptance However It is God’s hand which help you to make it through.
  44. Present emerges from past; Future emerges from Present; you have power to change in the “NOW”.
  45. Forgiveness is the road which meets to gratitude.
  46. Love is a choice which need efforts every day.
  47. “A__GREED” itself includes greed.
  48. Its same world who insists you answering of “WHYs” while feeding with the thought that not all WHYs have got answer.
  49. Biggest problem is  expectation of being loved and understood at the same level.
  50. Attraction is to appearance; Love is to soul.
  51. Be a queen or known stranger.
  52. No Kids can parent themselves. Childhood loneliness will haunt you, one way or other.
  53. Unseen gap between words and behavior, Behavior and actions is the place for question mark.
  54. Flowers are loved for their beauty & fragrance. I want to be loved for my soul and heart.
  55. Simplicity and peace have connection as complexity and chaos have.
  56. Emotional intimacy is sexiest form of love.
  57. Biggest mistake is safety lies in familiarity.
  58. Listen to your emotions instead of shutting them down.
  59. Avoid “Greed”, Work for “Wants”, Live by “Needs”.
  60. There is no scope of growth when one chooses to follow blindly.

I encourage you to share your lessons in the comment section or you can share your favorite lesson from this manual  🙂  Let’s connect and contribute in each other’s growth.

Nidhi